RESPECT! We all want it but are you willing to do what it takes to get it? Respect is not automatic and it is not guaranteed, it’s something you must earn and it all start with respecting yourself. If you can’t respect yourself don’t expect other people to respect you back.Respect is a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.These are my 4 Awesome Steps to Earn Respect easily.
1. Take Pride in your appearance: This means your hygiene, your grooming, your style. By taking pride in your personal packaging you are sending to the outside world. if you dress like crap, your pant hanging down off your ass and all your underwear showing. Guess what, this is sending a clear message to the world about yourself worth that you don’t care so why should they. Therefore, people are going to treat you accordingly.
2. Speak Respectfully: Say please, say thank you and clean up your language. There is no need for excessive use of profanity. When you are cursing all the time, guess what, you sound unintelligent and ignorant. When you do that people automatically tune you out, you do not need to curse to get your point across.
3. Think before you react: This is not something that is easy to do. But what I encourage you to do is practice. So many times, when you get into rough situation people automatically react, they don’t think and they don’t process. Exercise and develop an emotional discipline and this takes practice and the more you practice the more advantage you have over everybody else who is emotionally versatile.
4. Respect Others: The golden rule, you have heard it for years, you have heard it since you been little. Everybody says you get to treat others the way you want them to treat you, it sounds simple, right?
My dear Brothers and Sisters, Respect is a two-way stream, if you don’t show others respect and consideration for their views and feelings don’t expect them to respect you or yours. The deal is you don’t have to agree with people or you don’t have to see things eye and eye on the same level but the fact is, you need to respect where they are coming from and try to understand and they will respect you for respecting them.
Our society need a serious attitude adjustment and it all start with respect, respect yourself, respect others. This world needs role models. Are you man enough to be one? I HOPE SO. Please don’t forget to place your comment below.